DIGNIFIED IMAGES WANTED
By Wilhelmina S. Orozco
Who takes care of the image
of women? Who protects that image from being disrespected and downgraded?
Actually, the image of a
country, and of women in particular speak a lot about how we are esteemed or ignored
or disrespected by other countries. If we have a high image, then we can expect
equal and righteous treatment from other countries. If we have a corrupt and
selfish officials who only think of self-aggrandizement, then we are in for a
long battle against poverty, against maltreatment of our OFWs of other
countries, of being in that list of distrusted countries that do not deserve to
be lent any money from the world’s financial institutions.
I have been mulling over the
image of Filipino women and until now, I am still shocked over the turn-out of
our movement to liberate them. I saw a picture of girls running from the
earthquake shocks in their countries and they were wearing short shorts. I ride
the jeepneys around metroManila and I
see on the streets, fat and thin, women of all ages wearing short
shorts. Then my co-passengers are the same – some even smooch with their
boyfriends inside the jeep.
I was feeling foolish one
day and when I met a student at a university wearing the same costume, I told
her, “Next year you will be pregnant.” She looked at me oddly, as if what I had
just said was out of this world. How can that be when it is so real? Our
population growth is reaching its 100 millionth in a matter of two or three
years. “Hakbangan mo lang ang Pilipina, buntis kaagad.”
Then I rode a tricycle where
the driver had his wife at the back and his child in front of him. The wife was
had the same attire. Then I saw how her belly was so big and I knew that in a
matter of months she would be giving birth. I told them, “You keep wearing that
attire and you will be pregnant every year. You will not have anymore time but
just to take care of babies all day long.” The wife had a long look and then
bowed her head, while the driver was smiling, as if it was very normal for a
wife to be staying at home all the time and being surrounded with babies.
It seems that anything that
comes out of the TV programs is such high fashion. Nag-mini skirt ang isang TV
host kahit na buntis, and what did the girls and women do? They aped her. Yung
mga dancers sa noontime shows, kumendeng kendeng lang at initsa-itsa ang mga
hita nila sa ere, ginaya rin.
Chinese treatment
So now, are we anywhere
nearing a dignified state? Are we respected by our neighbors? The treatment we
are getting from the People’s Republic of China signified how lowly we are to
them. You see not only do they control our economy with so many cheap and
easily-wrecked goods like umbrellas and ball pens that conk out after being
written on a few pages of paper. They also are shoving their way at the
Scarborough Shoal, as if it had been theirs since time immemorial.
Actually, Folks, let me
digress a bit. If that is the defense of China with regard to their bullying
us, then we might as well remove all foreigners from our country including
their own who migrated to our shores in order to escape from the cruelty of
their communist regime. What kind of cruelty do they inflict but the worst kind
– killing babies in the womb of those women who are into their second
pregnancies and beyond. Why, from the very beginning, we had only the Aetas and
then the waves of Malayan and Indonesian immigrants here.
That argument, that they
have had the Shoal since time immemorial is untenable. All the countries of the
United Nations have their historical roots of migration. Yet they have bonded
together in order to have peace in this world, and so that no country would be
acting as if it is the only master that
could dictate how the earth should be rotating on its axis, and how one country
could only have the sun shining on it and nothing more.
Acting with dignity
In order for us to be
treated as equals, I think that we should not act as if we belong to another
country. We must act with our own self that has dignity, that is principled and
that has a consciousness that life is valuable for everyone and not for a few.
How funny really when a
relative of a high official lowers the dignity of his office. That relative is
a commercial object, selling all kinds of goods, from cooking stoves to watches
and even to condominiums. What happens when that thing occurs? The position of
the official is demeaned. The position becomes equal to all other positions.
I find that rather
opportunistic when a relative, uses his or her position to wangle high modeling fees simply because by
appearing as a model, then he/she is able to connote the product with the high
position of the relative. I do think that we must have a code of ethics for
high officials here, or we should improve it so that the dignity of the
position is not marred by that and other similar acts. What is the point?
Code of ethics
The point is that there
should be dignity accorded positions up
to relatives of the third degree. Commercial
companies should not be allowed to use relatives of high officials to push or
promote products in public since they are supposed to be officials for
everyone, not for a few companies or individuals.
So aside from revising the
code of ethics for public officials, we must also tasked the government,
especially the education and local government sectors to implement a program
wherein the image of public officials and the citizens shall not be trampled
upon.
That brings to my mind those
tarpaulins full of faces and soooo ordinary messages of officials to their
constituents. Pasko? Merry Christmas! Valentine? Happy Valentine’s Day! Nagtapos
sa elementary ang mga bata? Congratulations! Nag anibersaryo ang barangay?
Happy Anniversary! Ah, eleksyon! Iboto si Bebang! Huwag kalimutan is Kasmot!
And those tarpaulins stay up
there forever and a day regardless of whether they are current or relevant.
Tapos na ang Pasko, ang Valentine, ang graduation, ang elecksyon, a piyesta,
narun pa rin. Thus the barangay looks like a place for hanging tarpaulins, no
longer a dignified place to live in.
What is a dignified place?
One where there are no tarpaulins hanging here and there, where electric cables
are properly wound through tubes and connected to homes, not like spaghetti
that could snap at any time. It is a place where the people are not just
standing by or drinking about but are busy cleaning up, doing business in order
to earn a decent income or carrying on a profession, like haircutting.
Education sector
The problem with the
education sector is that it is saddled with putting up schools and the quality
of education rather than attending to issues that have a bearing on our image.
It does not seem to matter to a religious school if its students are moving
about in full regalia of the thighs of their female students. It does not
matter to government officials if the ranking of the universities are falling
down worldwide.
Now why is the ranking
falling down? The question should be, what is it in the environment that makes
the school not a place for learning anymore but rather one for “sosyalan” among
the students. Students go to school simply because they just want to have a
diploma and use that as a passport to work abroad, no matter how lowly
Now we go back to the image
of our people. Our image physically is so low that even the aspirations of the
people have become very low indeed. What jobs await our people abroad? The
majority are lowly ones that would not even earn them a pension when they
retire, and in worst of cases, make them alienated from their own families,
that is, if it has not been broken yet by geographical separation for many,
many years.
Look at our neighboring
countries. When you say, Thai, or Malaysian, or Singaporean or Vietnamese
people, we immediately imagine well-dressed and healthy citizens, busy working
or earning a living. When we say, Filipino people, and of course, Filipino
women, all sorts of images crop up, majority of which is centered on how comical
we find life – remember, “It’s more fun in the Philippines!” theme. And what
image of women do we see? Bah! Whoa!
Cheap to see thighs in the Philippines . Go
to schools, ride the jeepneys, the buses, watch the sidewalks. Tourists you
would enjoy all sorts of sizes and ages.
Cultural not just economic campaigns
No, our campaigns against
poverty should not only be economic but cultural. We must bring back the
dignity of the Filipino people, of Filipino women. We cannot allow the present
set-up to continue. Media should be part of that campaign to rid ourselves of
images that put our people down in the face of all foreign countries. We cannot
afford to continue doing our thing now without minding how we look.
It’s so funny, how the
intelligence group track me down from the house to all the public places that I
go to. Right now, I have just told off one resident downstairs not to make
noise by the side of my window as I am writing this piece. What kind of noise?
Gargling and sniffing. Who has brought him there? The yard is so big in front
but he had chosen to do his thing right beneath my window. How funny really.
Then when I rode this
jeepney from Buendia corner EDSA, two elderly women were acting strangely. They
were staring hard at me. Because of the big intelligence budget, the intel
group must be coming up with different activities that would anger me in public
places and probably make me lose coolness. I could only shake my head in
disbelief at their antics. The people’s money is being used for destroying
activist tendencies among the people. Right now folks, several motorcycles are
passing by my place –revving up the engine to create noise and make me mind
them instead of my ideas here. These people are planted to destroy my
equanimity in order for me not to come up with political ideas that would, to
their polluted minds, rock the boat.
“Tuwid na daan” papunta saan?
Is it rocking the boat to
point out where our country should be directed? PNoy talks about “tuwid na
daan.” But when you talk of such paths, you need good directional tools. By the
way, we could ask the local governors, what is the matter with your street
signs? How can the people know the right directions when the street signs are
either dilapidated or do not exist? At one time, there were even two streetname
posts with different designs in several corners of our barangay yet carrying
the same names of the streets. In Manila ,
the street names are peeling off the tablets, showing us how corrupt the
officials who had ordered them. They had
accepted poor quality sign tablets just so they could rake millions from all
the purchase streetsigns. At one time, I saw a post with a name pointing to the
wrong street.
The wise guys in the
barangay must be having a heyday making fun of those street posts. They want
the people to lose their way as they themselves must have lost their way
through all the years of neglect.
Directional tool
So what is the directional
tool that we need? DZFE, the Christian radio station, would say the Bible. We can be very religious
and spiritual but we must also tackle the material life. First of all, we must
be aware of what image we are showing the world.
Secondly, the educational
sector must put its foot down and remove that laissez-faire attitude towards
how the students look. The students must be taught that the school is a place
for learning with dignity, not for loafing around in shorts and slippers. Most
of all female students must be taught that they have a role to play in making
their male classmates achieve high intellectual learning. They should not use
their gender for creating situations that would only result in physical
contact, but rather an intellectual relationship that will make them worthy
citizens in the future.
Thirdly, local governments
must cite what are important streets in each barangay. Those fronting the barangay
halls especially should be a site for dignified activities – not for selling
this and that product, or servicing this and that machine on the sidewalks.
I know the effect of a
respectful treatment of the people in Tondo. The Robinson’s Corporation donated
tarpaulins for the use of the Smokey
Mountain relocatees in
their community office in order to serve as roofing materials. Today, the
community leader-volunteers dress up well, have an office that is a hub for so
many activities serving the people, and the people themselves act from a higher
moral ground. The leaders have just chastised one member who had tried to milk
the people through dubious means although the project was educational in
nature.
Moving and acting as one
The fact that our people are
leaving in droves at the airport signifies that they want a decent livelihood,
a decent lifestyle. They do not find that in our country and so they look for
it elsewhere in this planet. Anywhere but in the Philippines . Sure, “fun” we can
have but in terms of serious thinking and making lots of moolah, leave that to
the telcos. By the way, aren’t we the top texters of the world?
If only the officials would
be sensitive to what the people truly want, then our people would be moving as
one with them. We would not be sitting around and just waiting for manna to
drop from heaven. We shall act with them.